A retreat is an intentional pause from the busyness and noise of everyday life—a sacred stepping away to reconnect with yourself on a deeper level. It’s a space where you can rest, reflect, and realign with what matters most. Whether nestled in nature or created at home, a retreat offers the opportunity to quiet the mind, nurture the body and listen to the whispers of the soul.

Unlike a vacation, which often fills time with external activity, a retreat is about coming home to yourself. It invites stillness, presence and practices that support healing, clarity and growth—such as meditation, breathwork, journaling, movement or simply being.

Taking yourself on retreat is an act of self-leadership and self-love. It’s a way of honoring your inner landscape, tending to what’s been neglected, and returning to life with renewed energy, purpose and connection.

In a world that constantly demands more—more productivity, more connection, more noise—retreating can feel radical. But there is profound power in the pause. Taking yourself on retreat is not an escape, it’s a return; a return to clarity, to simplicity, to the rhythm of your own breath and heartbeat. It is where your soul can finally exhale.

What is a retreat, really?

A retreat is not a vacation. It’s not about checking out—it’s about tuning in. It’s a conscious decision to step away from the noise and immerse yourself in stillness, self-care and soulful nourishment. It’s time set aside to listen, to realign and to remember who you are beneath the layers of busyness.

The power of a conscious environment

The environment of a retreat is everything. Whether you are in a mountain cabin, seaside cottage, forest yurt or a quiet corner of your home, it becomes a sacred container free from distractions, toxic inputs and external pressures. You may leave behind alcohol, caffeine, sugar and processed foods—not as a punishment, but as a loving boundary—creating space for clean, vibrant nourishment that supports your body’s healing and clarity.

Imagine starting your day with warm lemon water, slow intentional movement, and the sound of birds instead of notifications. A retreat space is an atmosphere that whispers “you’re safe here” and allows your nervous system to soften.

Organic movement: reclaiming your body’s wisdom

On retreat, movement becomes less about performance and more about presence. Whether it’s a gentle yoga flow, a barefoot walk through the woods or spontaneous stretching beneath the stars, you begin to move in rhythm with your own energy. You’re not trying to fix your body, you’re listening to it. This kind of movement is deeply healing, unlocking stored tension and opening new channels for energy and insight.

Clean eating as sacred practice

Food on retreat becomes medicine and meditation. You slow down, chew mindfully and savor the nourishment that comes from whole, vibrant, plant-rich meals. You might eat locally grown produce, drink herbal teas and cook with intention—or be lovingly served by others who honor food as a sacred act.

By removing processed foods, stimulants and alcohol, your body and mind begin to clear. Cravings dissolve. Intuition heightens. Your taste returns, not just for food, but for life itself.

Stillness, silence and soul connection

The silence you find on retreat is not empty—it’s full of insight, emotion, memory and soul. In this quiet, the distractions fall away and your inner voice becomes audible. Journaling, meditating, walking in nature or simply watching the sunrise all become spiritual practices. You may meet parts of yourself you
forgot existed.

Why take yourself on retreat?

You don’t have to wait for an invitation or a curated group experience. You can take yourself on retreat anytime and anywhere you wish. You can choose a day, a weekend, or a full week to turn inward. You create your own rhythm, your own rituals. It’s an act of radical responsibility and deep self-love to say, “I am worthy of my own time, my own attention, my own healing.”

Finding a retreat for you

You don’t have to spend a lot of money to reap the rewards of a sacred pause.
A home retreat can work just as well as an external getaway and can teach you a lot about yourself. If you’d prefer to attend a retreat organized by others, reach out to local wellness practitioners for their recommendations, or simply search “local wellness retreats” in your desired destination and find one that resonates with you based on offerings and reviews. 

DIY Retreats.  For a home reprieve, follow this simple guide, or create your own space and time to realign, reflect and renew: 

Create your sacred space

Location ideas:

• A cozy cabin, yurt or Airbnb in nature
• A dedicated space in your home—unplugged, candle-lit, cozy
• A tent in your backyard or a quiet, rustic getaway

Atmosphere tips:

• Clear clutter and bring in natural elements (plants, stones, wood, soft fabrics)
• Diffuse essential oils (lavender, frankincense, cedarwood)
• Turn off your phone or put it in airplane mode
• Add sacred objects: journals, crystals, altar items, books that nourish

Nourish yourself with clean, intentional food

Retreat food philosophy: Eat simple, whole, plant-based meals that are lovingly prepared and mindfully eaten. Avoid alcohol, caffeine, sugar and processed foods to allow clarity and vitality to arise naturally.

Suggested staples:

• Herbal teas (chamomile, peppermint, tulsi)
• Warm lemon water in the morning
• Fresh fruits and vegetables
• Brown rice, quinoa or millet
• Leafy greens, sweet potatoes and lentils
• Soups, stews and smoothies
• Nuts, seeds and nourishing broths

Daily nourishment practices:

• Eat without screens or distractions
• Offer gratitude before meals
• Chew slowly, taste deeply, listen to your body

Move from the inside out

Daily organic movement:

• Gentle yoga (sun salutations, yin, intuitive flow)
• Walks in nature or barefoot grounding
• Stretching while listening to calming music or silence
• Dance or free-form movement if it arises organically
• Breath-led movement: inhale to expand, exhale to release

Sample practice flow:

• Morning: Seated breath work, yoga sun salutations and cat/cow stretches
• Afternoon: Nature walk and mindful body scan
• Evening: Legs-up-the-wall, twists and a long savasana

Go inward: meditation and reflection

Simple daily practices:

• Morning meditation (10–20 minutes):
  Start in silence or with a guided track
• Journaling prompts:
• What am I ready to release?
• What do I long to feel more of?
• Where in my life do I feel most alive?
• What whispers is my soul offering today?
• Evening gratitude practice: Write three things you’re grateful for each night

Optional practices:

• Breath work sessions
• Sound healing (bowls, playlist or tuning forks)
• Fire ceremony or symbolic letting go ritual

Suggested schedule

Morning

• Rise without an alarm
• Drink warm lemon water
• Breath work and movement
• Journaling or meditation
• Light breakfast

Midday

• Nourishing lunch
• Nature walk or creative practice (painting, writing, vision boarding)
• Rest or nap
• Optional workshop or reading

Evening

• Light movement or restorative yoga
• Dinner
• Reflection journaling
• Candlelight meditation, sound bath or warm bath
• Early to bed

Closing your retreat

Before reentering the world, ask yourself:

• What do I want to carry forward with me?
• What boundaries, practices or intentions will I honor?
• What will I not return to?

You may want to write a letter to yourself, light a candle or do a final meditation to seal the experience.

Returning renewed. When you emerge from retreat, the world hasn’t changed, but you have. You return with clearer eyes, a calmer heart and a deeper sense of connection to what truly matters. And from that space, your presence becomes medicine for others, too.

If you are a Coachella Valley local and have a retreat to recommend, please feel free to add it to the comments below. Submissions will be reviewed for approval. Thank you!

Alison Mullins is a certified holistic life and health coach, yoga therapist, sound healer and founder of Coppermoon Rising. She can be reached at [email protected] or www.coppermoonrising.com.

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